The influence of high-order effects on the stability of the optical soliton in a semiconductor three-quantum-dot molecular system under the excitation of narrow pulse probe light is analyzed analytically by using the multi-scale method. The results show that optical soliton described by the standard nonlinear Schrödinger equation will have a large attenuation in the propagation process, while the optical soliton described by the high-order nonlinear Schrödinger equation has relatively good stability. In addition, numerical simulations of the interaction between optical solitons show that the amplitudes of the two optical solitons described by the standard nonlinear Schrödinger equation attenuate rapidly after the collisions and radiation of more serious dispersion waves, while the shapes of the two optical solitons described by the high-order nonlinear Schrödinger equation hardly changes after the collision. This is mainly because when the incident probe light pulse is narrow enough, the system must be described by a higher-order equation. The physical reason is that the higher-order effects in the equation, including non-instantaneous effects and third-order dispersion effects, cannot be ignored or treated as perturbations. This kind of stable optical soliton has potential application value for future optical information processing and transmission technology.